tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post2444868901449937584..comments2023-03-23T20:29:37.432+08:00Comments on Esther Eng: My personal struggle with my weightEstherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11681051654651617479noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-65726842274986016192015-08-10T02:32:29.581+08:002015-08-10T02:32:29.581+08:00Hello ! Thank you for taking the time to read this...Hello ! Thank you for taking the time to read this post ! it means a lot !<br />And also , yes , i do agree that everyone has their own insecurities ! and i want you to know that , you are NOT alone in this !!!! <br />i would say , never compare yourself to anyone else , but i know how it feels like and i , too , have been there where I'm always comparing myself to other prettier girls , wondering why can't i be like that . We've all been there , i guess . But i just want you to know that , you are beautiful just the way you are and everyone is special in their own ways , no one is perfect ! In the future , if you've ever have that thought again , fight it , as hard as it sounds , because your body deserves that love , you deserve that love that comes from only you yourself ! Comparing ourselves to others would be really really toxic for us sometimes, and if we keep comparing , we would never be happy with ourselves . The beauty from within ,a person's confidence and personality on TV is all that matters because If you put a just a pretty face in front of the camera but she's boring and has no personality , i don't think she will make that clip or whatever it is fun ! But if you put a person who has a great personality , fun , and confident , everyone's attracted to that . JUST BE YOU!!!! and I'm glad that my writing helped a little, i never would've thought that it would help anyone at all !!!<br /><br />Reminding you again that you are beautiful just the way you are , eventho i don't know who you are ,and always , always love yourself no matter what!<br />thanks once again for reading the post and being kind enough to leave a comment , you have no idea how much it actually means to me !!!!! Sending all my love and positivity to you xx<br />Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11681051654651617479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-38403898994971766502015-08-10T02:13:37.012+08:002015-08-10T02:13:37.012+08:00amazing comment ! hahahaha kidding baby thank you ...amazing comment ! hahahaha kidding baby thank you and i love you!Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11681051654651617479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-75060396622300497442015-08-10T02:13:19.062+08:002015-08-10T02:13:19.062+08:00thank you so much ! it means a lot !!!! <3thank you so much ! it means a lot !!!! <3Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11681051654651617479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-74453839095040999472015-08-10T00:51:39.261+08:002015-08-10T00:51:39.261+08:00Thank you for writing this.
Although I've no...Thank you for writing this. <br /><br />Although I've not been overweight in my life, but I am what people call 'the skinny fat'. I was also called fat, chubby, thunder thighs, football leg, fishball face, any names you can think of actually. <br /><br />Some might argue that I wouldn't know how it feels like to be in your shoes, or feel the way you feel because I'm not overweight. But, everyone has their own insecurities and I myself struggle to love myself too. <br /><br />Because of the course that I'm studying now, there have been a number of times where I am required to appear in front of the camera. Whenever I look at those clips or photos, I would hate how I look because I wasn't photogenic enough or was I 'slim' enough to be on TV. And when I see other girls who are able to look so natural and beautiful on photos and in the clips, it would make me hate myself even more. It break me down even more, because I always loved and dream to be the front lines of the media. But, because the way I look, it has definitely break my spirit to be what I wanna be. <br /><br />We all face our struggle everyday. No matter how we look or what body we have. We go to the gym, we dress up, we put on make up, we try to speak in a certain way, act in a certain way and even walk in a certain way just to get our confidence level up. But there are still days, where you'll look yourself in the mirror and feel like shit.<br /><br />But most importantly, we pick ourselves up and continue fighting. It may be a long journey, but as long as we fight, I believe, we will win the battle some day. <br /><br />Your writing has definitely been a good reminder to love myself better. <br />I've known you since primary school days. Trust me, you look great just the way you are now. Stay awesome!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-5838839422335952232015-08-10T00:08:47.040+08:002015-08-10T00:08:47.040+08:00Amazing post!Amazing post!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09205134347367764389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7181648473036186124.post-19872802704245804342015-08-10T00:04:58.894+08:002015-08-10T00:04:58.894+08:00That is a beautiful post. Keep up the good work an...That is a beautiful post. Keep up the good work and never lose hope you are destined for amazing things and don't let anything hold you down. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com